Self Improvement In My Life

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Ahhhhhh~~ I Need It

The Best Way to Improve Youself

10 Tips For Self- Improvement
1.       1.
Don’t Procrastinate
When u put something off, you are putting yourself into the time debt. You need to finish it and pay the time pay.
2.       2
 Forget Goals – Live for the Now

If u lives according to the goals, the goals might not as your wish. A self-improvement people will not live with a goal that control their own life. They will life for themselves.
3.       3.
 Face the Fear

You may need to do something that u don’t like in the daily life. Therefore, try to face it. Living in a fearless life will give you more confident when you are in trouble.
4.       4.
Break the Chain
If you have a lot of patterns, try to beak it out. You can try something different.
5.       5.
Learn a New Language
Learning a new language is a way to improve ourselves. It can gives us confidence to prove yourself.
6.       6.
Accept the things you can’t Change
Sometimes, there have something happen around us and we try to fix it or change it. However, sometimes we can’t change it. If we can’t change it, then we try to accept it. If we accept it, then we can become more happier person.
7.       7.
Be Generous
You can be generous with your smile, your help and so forth to others.  The reason is in the future, we may need a help from other from the future. So, we need to be generous.  
8.
Take a Break and have Fun
If you spend too much time in front of your computer, or doing whatever, you need a rest as well. It can help u reduce your stress and get more energy to work after you finish break.
9.       9.
Keep a Schedule
It is good that you write or jot it down in a book. This can let you know which task u need to finish first. If u cant finish the task, it doesn’t matter. You can finish it by move it to the first task to finish.
10.   10.
Get off to a Good Start
This means you get up early and eat breakfirst. If you can get early, then you will more energy to do everything.


Believe In Myself



We must believe in ourselves. We must know we can do it.

My Inspiration

^ Short Story About Self- Improvement^

          When i was young, i like to eat snack and lack of exercise. As time has grow, my body grow also. My mum always advice me to eat healthy snack but i refuse to eat. When time has past, my body line has also grow bigger and bigger. 
          At the age 16, i had entered in a new class. Then only i realized people are slim in their body line. All of them are slim, except me. I'm been giving a big name called ' Big Show", its mean i am in big size. Since i entered this class, i been ignored by all the classmates. No people wants to be my friend. 
          Therefore, i had make a decision to keep fit. I had throw away all my favorite food. My mum was feel weird why i throw away my snacks. I find a way to keep fit which is jogging. This is the only i think i work fast. In the first day, i start my plan at park. I planned to run for 20 minutes. After i started for a few minutes, i feel like i want to die. It was so suffer and i wondering why i want to suffer here. I can stay in an air-condition room and watched movie with my favorite snack as well.
          Besides that, along the road, i can see the kids were eating with their yummy ice-cream, juices and so forth. Its made me feel more suffer and want to give up. But when i think back the body line in front of my minor, it was so ugly and disgusting. I don't want that body line, i want a brand new body line.
         I insist to finish this 20 minutes. Finally, i had finish it. I feel so happy. To prevent getting fatter, i had change my meal into healthy meal and exercise it everyday. Now, after i finish my jogging, i din't feel exhausted and fragile at all. I had built my stamina. After a few months, i had loss my weight and my body line become so slim. I am so happy and proud of myself. Self0 improvement is important to me because without this, my body line wont become so slim and healthy. I might became more fat. 

The Self- Improvement Quotations

Self- Improvement Qutations



Employ your time in improving yourself by other men's writings so that you shall come easily by what others have labored hard for.
Socrates

People seldom improve when they have no other model but themselves to copy.
Oliver Goldsmith 

Let us strive to improve ourselves, for we cannot remain stationary; one either progresses or retrogrades.
Mme. Du Deffand

The safest principle through life, instead of reforming others, is to set about perfecting yourself.
B. R. Haydon

Change yourself and fortune will change with you.
Portugese Proverb

What you dislike in another take care to correct in yourself.
Thomas Sprat

The highest purpose of intellectual cultivation is to give a man a perfect knowledge and mastery of his own inner self; to render our consciousness its own light and its own mirror.
Frederich Leopold von Hardenberg

In this world man must either be anvil or hammer.
Henry W. Longfellow

What are the aims which are at the same time duties? They are perfecting of ourselves, the happiness of others.
Immanuel Kant

Many only learns in two ways, one by reading, and the other by association with smarter people.
Will Rogers

Every man has in himself a continent of undiscovered character. Happy is he who acts as the Columbus to his own soul.
Sir J. Stephen

Discontent is the source of all trouble,
but also of all progress, in individuals and nations.
Berthold Auerbach

Slumber not in the tents of your fathers! The world is advancing. Advance with it!
Mazzini

The greatest of faults, I should say, is to be conscious of none.
Thomas Carlyle

Hold yourself responsible for a higher standard than anyone else expects of you.
Never excuse yourself.

Henry Ward Beecher

Never neglect an opportunity for improvement.
Sir William Jones

Remedy your deficiencies,
and your merits will take care of themselves.

Edward Bulwer-Lytton

Look within, for within is the wellspring of virtue, which will not cease flowing, if you cease not from digging.
Marcus Aurelius

Everyone has naturally the power of excelling in some one thing.
Proverb

Circumspection in calamity; mercy in greatness; good speeches in assemblies; fortitude in adversity: these are the self-attained perfections of great souls.
Hitopadesa

Practice yourself in little things, and thence proceed to greater.
Epictetus

If you have great talents, industry will improve them; If moderate abilities, industry will supply their deficiencies. Nothing is denied to well-directed labor: nothing is ever to be attained without it.
Sir Joshua Reynolds

There is nothing noble about being superior to some other man. The true nobility is in being superior to your previous self.
Hindu Proverb

What you are must always displease you, if you would attain to that which you are not.
Saint Augustine

Live up to the best that is in you: Live noble lives, as you all may, in whatever condition you may find yourselves.
Henry W. Longfellow



10 Questions to Ask Ourselves?

These questions is vital for us to improve ourselves.
1. What Do I Really Want?
     There are so many things in our life and we want to do with our life and we have no much time to complete with it. Therefore, we have to find something that we good at and can help us to know the steps to the improvement. 


2. Should I Really Change?
    We will learn something through our life if the history of our life has taught us one thing. There has a reason if we want to change. So, understand it and remember that if you are prepare to get started. 


3. What's The Bright Side In All Of This?
     In our life, there are so many things happen around us and it seems to be no place for even considering that light at the end of the tunnel. but, we still can see the positive thing hide from the incident that happened around us. We must take it in a positive way and see whats make the world go around. 


4. Am I Comfortable With What I'm Doing?
    For this question, it is about the decision that we make. There are many ways when it comes to deciding with what is going on. We do not use the genius way to look at ourselves as an unique. If we do, then we all are the same in everything we do already. So, we must feel comfortable with what we doing now.


5. Have I Done Enough For Myself?
    We must think whether there still have anything we haven't done yet or something more we want to do. We  must not let ourselves regret in our life. We can do something that we could never imagine doing.


6. Am I Happy Where I Am Today?
    It is not fair to answer this question. We may very happy with what we have now. However, we must also consider that what we have now is happy to us? The answer is ourselves know.


7. Am I Appealing To The Opposite Sex?
    It is depends to ourselves. Its doesn't mean we can't try it out. No matter how we dress u, our look, hairstyles, or attitude towards the people, we should always remember that for our own benefit.

8. How Much Could I Have?
    Thee is no such thing that how could i have, could i have more or little, but it is more on how badly you really need it. Foe example, Ali likes to have a lot of money, but the question is how much he willing work for it?

9. What Motivate Us? 
     What motivate us? This question we have to ask ourselves, There are many things that can make us happy but also makes us sad. So we have to think about it.

10. What Really Makes Us Tick?
       You can think about what we always want to be but sometimes we already give up before we try it out. We must know that we need to put effort before we want to attain it. Remember, self- improvement is not just the physical or philosophical change, it is something that we really want.
     
     



What is Self Improvement/ Motivation

What is self improvement? 
          This is the act to improving ourselves. Besides that, it is also following a disciplined programme to improve our physical health, mental or character in our daily life. This is very important in our life especially when we are work. There are many ways to improve ourselves. The way to improve ourselves is variety. What is the purpose of self- improvement?
           Well, when we were a kid, we went school and we been taught new knowledge and skills. When we were grow up, we were learn something that we were never learned before. But why we choose to learn??
            it is for money?
            it is for future?
These might be true also.
We choose to learn is to improve ourselves. Knowing more information or knowledge can gives us the ability to talk with others, specially we have a presentation. It is also give us the ability share the information that we have so we can interact positively with other people. Its help us to attached with the social. Therefore, self-improvement is very important no matter where and when we are.